How to Make a Woman Moan (without her faking it!)-Blog #2
This guy in the meet-cute:
You are walking down the street. Your mind on the caramel mocha you are going to order from your favorite coffee shop.
Soon your eye catches a handsome young man in tight jeans and a navy blue bubble jacket. The tiny hairs on your neck go up. Your cheeks burn. And a spasm hits between your legs when he smiles your way.
You don’t want to seem too eager so you shyly look away. It’s possible that gorgeous, wide grin wasn’t directed at you. Maybe he was looking at someone else. A friend he knew.
As you approach, you can’t help but steal a glance over his way. Yeah, he’s clocking you with a smirk and a wink now. Your cheeks hurt from the wide grin you give him.
He is cute. You two could go to a restaurant and laugh over a plate of Koren BBQ together. Maybe have a few flirty touches as he helps you strike an 8 ball in the side pocket. Or joke with you during a movie. Then, later during a slow walk to your apartment, you play out in your mind how he might try to kiss you and debate if you would let him. You imagine the tingles his lips will leave on yours.
Those fantasies may come true later, but for now, you are walking closer to him on the sidewalk. His yummy mouth parts to say something:
“Hey, girl, you got a boyfriend?”
Not the best way to start a conversation, but he’s hot so you let it go.
“No,” you smile and continue to walk past.
“Where you going, cutie?” He says.
“Getting a coffee. And you?” You respond back politely, not sure where this is going and if he’ll ever make a move towards wanting to see you again.
“I’ll go wherever you are going with your hot ass.”
Taking back and shocked by his lousy pickup line, you realize he’s becoming less attractive.
“What’s up!?! How are things?” He says.
Okay. It started out rough, but he is trying. Maybe, he is as nervous as you are.
“I’m good. Just fine,” you say.
“Yes, you are.”
Silence.
Is that it? you think. Am I supposed to just stand here and listen to bad compliments?
“Damn, you look good, girl,” he continues.
You soon realize that is all he has to say. He no longer looks good. He’s a walking mannequin that only knows a few phrases to say.
“Why don’t you give me your number so we can get down some time? I loved to see what’s underneath all those clothes.”
No, he found another line to say.
You feel dirty and want to get away as soon as possible. So, you hurry off down the street as you try to block out the trail of catcalls he yells behind you.
Okay, no!!!
Fellas, no matter how handsome you are. These inappropriate catcalls only work on the young low self-esteemed girls who are more interested in how you look and what you’ll do with your money and mouth than the words that are coming out of it.
And those girls are few and far between for those without the right finances.
If you are only interested in getting a one-night stand, that’s fine. But at least, up your game so your percentage status can go up.
Or, if you want to catch a real woman for possibly starting something real, try a simple approach.
Keep it sweet and quick.
UPPING YOUR GAME:
- Start with a basic conversation. “Hey, how are you? How’s your day been?”
- Listen! Don’t fantasize about how you can make her moan. Listen, so you can respond with something more than “You’re sexy.” Stay in the moment.
- If you need a pick-up line or want to compliment her, say something nice that doesn’t directly talk about her looks. Maybe, “I like your smile. You must make everyone feel welcome with that smile.”
Or you can go cute and funny with something like:
“You know what!?! There must be something wrong with my phone because it doesn’t have your number in it.”
- Keep it sweet and quick. Get her information and call her later. Not three days later but later.
And remember when you do talk to her again, talk about something more than her looks and/or how much you want to get down with her.
That can come later. Get to know her, make her interested in you. That’s how you connect to her mind so you can later connect with her body.
The overeager flatter who has a girl/wife:
You walking in from work. Your day was long and tiresome. All you want is to slip off your shoes, grab a glass of wine and relax.
“Hey, baby, how was your day?” your significant other stands up from the couch.
There is no wine to offer you but at least they asked about you.
Your lover rubs your shoulders as you recount the horrendous day of stressful annoyances.
Right when your guard is down and you are relaxed, you hear “ Poor baby. You’re so sexy. I love your ass in those pants.”
Suddenly hands start going south towards your waist.
STOP!
Rage from the day gets thrown back at your partner since know you feel like an object of easy ass. Someone who hears a few things about their body and then, immediately drops to their knees.
For Those Who Got the Girl/Wife
Women love compliments. Of course, who doesn’t?
But there is a difference between compliments and grinding teeth irritating remarks. Those phrases say “I’m only with you until someone hotter comes along.”
Not an idea that gets us in the mood.
Yes, it is nice to hear you look good, occasionally.
BUT WHAT’S WRONG WITH COMPLIMENTING A WOMAN’S LOOKS.
Yes, it is nice to hear you look good, occasionally. But if a woman is only praised for her appearance, she thinks she is only valued for physical reasons. She is no more than a walking pretty girl poster.
And when beauty fades, weight gain occurs, or some bad skin acme comes, she’s going to feel bad about herself. Since your constantly praise her looks, what does she have left to feel good about?
Sidenote: Some women aren’t completely upset with this concept of fading beauty. They see it as a transformation in beauty. A more mature way to still look damn sexy.
For those particular females, compliments towards their looks are bothersome since they make a woman think this is the value a man sees in her. And if he only values the physical parts of the relationship, he doesn’t love me because to truly love someone you know them and love all of them inside and out, sane and insane.
Your woman wants to know you picked her for her, not for a warm hole. How is she unique from any other woman who has the same anatomy? That you’re attracted to her? She was the first cute girl to respond back to you?
If the answer is yes, you might be with the wrong girl. Or ladies, you have picked the wrong man, because this guy is going to leave you for the next prettier face that gives him a chance.
We don’t need that.
BUT I DON’T KNOW HOW TO SAY ANYTHING ELSE
Here are some of my favorites:
- You’re one of those people with an energy that draws other people in. I’m always happy when I’m around you!
- You’re such a good listener. Thanks for always being there when I need someone to talk to.
- You make me smile.
- You meant a lot to me.
- I like your tits in that shirt. Just Kidding! Seeing if you were paying attention. Don’t say that until you have already slid into first.
For more ideas check out:
https://www.rachaelhartleynutrition.com/blog/things-to-compliment-someone-on-other-than-appearance
http://blog.feelgreatin8.com/50-compliments-that-have-nothing-to-do-with-appearance/
By all means, call your woman beautiful and sexy. It is good to hear but add some other praises outside of her appearance. You’ll get more brownie points for some sexy time this way.
Jasmine Lace 